I would like to travel to Malaysia, yet as a gentleman I resent the inclination I would ever ’stalk’ her. Besides, I am not that wealthy to just up and travel unfortunatly. I do.. have faith though.

‘Cheesie blog is a reflection of her character and of who she is’

Correct.

‘nice try but better luck next time. Haha !’

There is always… a next time.

ps: I have no grudges against you concerning the post might be a bit rude =) Just to give you some food for thought.

anon – wow! well congratulations to your friends in their marriages! +
Can’t speak for your gf either, but hey, every one is unique person and who knows?
If you want to, why waste time pandering?

Mandy – Actually, I told her before… she could blog about anything she wanted in reference to me. So this was fair game.

Calv – Thanks for the nice opinion!

1. True, but ultimately… so what?
2. Somewhat harmless is subjective, as far as Cheesie goes… totally harmless yes.
3. You may hold my word any day on that. But… I have not yet “heard” much of any direct reply as yet.
So I thought to not email her anymore, as I really don’t mean to pressure/disturb her. This also goes for posting here… but I’m slipping under the wire on this one. (maybe that will get a response… :)) *ducks*

While I do have a flair for the unusual, weird is relative actually. And…boy do I have some weird relatives… ehm, just kidding!!!
I was headstrong, but also somewhat limited in my approach options. -> and, trying to relate in emails/txt is not the best medium for conveyance of true feelings. Respecting her was easy, but I admit to being direct. - Guilty as charged!
If being direct, loses me respect points… I guess that’s the price I’ll pay then eh?
Trust is very important to me, and that’s why I have been honest to her. I don’t like fakes either.

Besides, I’m guessing - most presume I meant more of - “marry me” as in the immediate sense of the word. It is meant as a real possibility, (obviously up to her) but more to make the statement that I would do so, in time. A statement of intent if you will - so Cheesie is aware of my commitment to a relationship, of any kind. Keeping my feelings hidden is not something /I prefer to do. It did take me awhile to decide…, to actually propose

Not an expert on asian culture, but not completely ignorant either. And yet people are people all around the world are they not?
Truly, I am very gentle - she just kind of blew me away is all… from only her writings. Can I explain it? No, not really. Can anyone explain love to me in 100 words or less? Heck, take all you need! Call it what you will, only did what I felt the drive to do. So I took the chance, instead of slinking away like I almost did…

I’m a free spirit, and don’t plan to change that at this stage of the game.

Love Ya!

Peace, Light, and Love to You All!!!

1) u’ve not meet this guy. besides, u guys live in different continents
2) John is somewhat harmless. i dunno, it’s just instinct. it happens to me often and it’s oftenly accurate :p
3) u can give john a try in replying a short reply. well he did say he’ll be off if u do tell him off. so i guess we can hold his word for that.

i’m not sure how u want it to be cheesie but i guess no matter what people comment here, it’ll all boil down to what u want. relax and think about ur next move.

John, this is by far the weirdest way i see someone approach a girl. u’re being very direct. sometimes it’s good but sometimes it ain’t. maybe that’s the way u guys function back at your home but i do suggest that u should read up about asia and its culture before stepping in using yours. this is what respect is all about man. in order to gain someone’s love, u gotta gain someone’s trust.
to gain a person’s trust is to respect that person. u know what i mean, since u did mention that you’re old enough.

Cheers.