I know I blogged about this in Chocoboard. But I cannot help. The show is too good, (almost as good as Sex and the City but nothing can beat that) and I got totally hooked on it!
It’s nothing but a bunch of hot lesbians who are naked all the time. It’s so explicit it’s like watching celebrity porn. I find it so intriguing how they can display so much emotion towards a girl. They kiss, they fondle, they looking into each others eyes and see stars. Either they are really super good actresses or they just love girls.
I remember this scene where Shane (or was it Bette? God I super love Bette) says to this guy she just told of her sex preference,
“Don’t give us that look. No we won’t have sex with you and another woman. We just want to have sex with another woman.”
Haha.
Which reminds me of what TT told me the other day. He was having lunch with this female client of his whom he’s meeting the first time. The girl told him “By the way, I’m a lesbian” right after they shook hands.
Want liddat meh.
I mean, since when someone’s sexual preference has become the first priority of all the personal info he/she/shim/it have to spill out in front of a stranger?
Recently I discovered a very disturbing trend, that most of the straight girls like to make this claim that they are somehow incline to liking the same sex, as if it is a very in thing to do, and take it as an enormous compliment if someone asks if they are lesbians.
“Hi, I’m a lesbian, and I’m cool.” Liddat.
I’m not saying a lesbian should not come out of the closet, if she really is one. She has every right in the galaxy to do so. But no lo, those girls are 100% straight and they just say it because they think it will turn men on.
A girl told me.
“You’re hot. You know what, I’m les actually.”
“Yea? Do you have a lesbian partner?”
“Nope.”
“Have you ever had sex with a girl?”
“Nope.”
“How about fantasizing to have sex with a girl?”
“No, but I like to look at their naked bodies.”
HELLO?
I kiss my girlfriends on the lips. That doesn’t make me a lesbian. I also will pay RM30 to buy Playboy just to see Kristin Kreuk in bikinis. That doesn’t make me a lesbian, Watching Jennifer Beals undress in The L Word makes me horny. That doesn’t make me a lesbian? Don’t demean the word lesbian if you think you qualify to be one just because you think Angelina’s tits are nice. Sorry dear you’re as straight as a ruler.
Ok la I understand the whole men loving kinky exotic threesome foursome fivesome orgy idea. But telling someone what you are not is so pointless! As if they can’t attract a man as a normal woman anymore but have to twist their sexual orientation just to grab a stranger’s attention hoping he will throw in a little bit more when they start commenting on the cleavage of girls who walk by.
It’s all the men’s fault. There are more and more “social lesbians” (as Aki aptly puts it) who can transform into an instant part-time girl-loving-girl to feed the male fantasy, just so the guys will find them interesting. Which is so sad.
I have lesbian friends and most of them are intelligent, soft-spoken and classy women. Who doesn’t eagerly shout into the amplifier they are one the minute they meet a new friend. (And I don’t quite believe there are such thing as bisexuality I think they are just freaking indecisive beings who can’t make up their mind about which side they are on. So it’s just a transitional thingie).
I think most girls go through this stage where they naively believe they are bi (like, yay, the guys will find me hot!) in some way. I was attracted by this girl a few years ago to the point that I’m a little obsessed with everything she does. It was nothing sexual, just I was extremely fond of her and wanted to be around her all the time. But it’s just a phase I think. I’ve mistaken the sisterly whatever as affection. I got back to normal after that. I just think the label “lesbian” is so misused and mistaken and that there’s not a need to prove that you are one, when you are not.
I dunno la. The L Word is driving me cheeses. I’m going to buy season two. Bye.
Hey Cheesie,
Thanks for clearing up my confusion about me and my friends hhahahaha~ Cheers 😀
haha being intimate with girls not lesbian la… But somehow guys intimate with guys makes ppl think wrongly?? but girls ok… That’s one weird thing I’m always questioning.. -__-
And u gotta admit some lesbians are very smart indeed!! And there’s nothing wrong of us kinda admiring what they’re doing and kinda “fell for her”… So totally NOT les… hahaha
Though I enjoy watching SATC, I didn’t find the L word (Tried to go thru the entire first season but after 8 episodes, I just forward to the nekkid parts) nearly as entertaining as Coupling(watched seasons 1-3 a number times. Season 4, without Jeff, was crap though), and I one who enjoy naked women.. mmm…
Highly over-rated series in my opinion, though, unsurprisingly, highly-recommended by my lesbo colleagues(both real and suspected pseudo ones).
How very true. But I’m just wondering why this is not applicable to men. It’s just like woman can wear trousers but guys can’t wear skirts(except for kilts la). Not that I’m keen to wear one lah. But the picture is just so wrong. Hmmmmmmm. I suppose for the past 10,000 years men has always been dignified as the strong and macho one.
So do you think I’m one? *does the eyebrow wiggling look*
BTW, who did you get attracted to without telling me?!?!?!???
it’s nice to see you are so open about sexuality. most malaysian girls find it taboo to discuss such things.
i think alot of girls are simply confused at one point and simply label themselves lesbian.
but sometimes i think its really just for attention.
you don’t alot of guys going up to you going “btw i’m gay”. i wonder why.
Kristin Kreuk makes me wanna be lesbian 😛
i like girlz who like girlz
X+Y=L Y+Y=L X+X=L L is the word Love Love Love.
where can i get em’?
I hv this t shirt tht says “lesbians hav more fun” >_
Kristin Kreuk is so gorgeous,I love her too! 😀
Have once heard from someone, somebody said “I want to be a lesbian”
(Not a lesbian, but lesbian wannabe)
The L-word really does strike much attention=)
That’s so true. I thought only my friend is doing that, didn’t know that it actually has become an “in” thing to say. I hv a friend,who !!!!!!!!LOVES!!!!!!! to tell everyone that she’s a lesbian. Everytime we go club and some guys come up to her,she’ll introduce herself and the next thing is,”have u meet my girlfriend? this is XXX.” She is definetely, 100%ly straight I can tell u and has a bf bck in M’sia. Ask her if she consider this as cheating? She said no. WHy? Because her partner is a girl. That’s not the point! I just dont think these ppl understand lesbians and they r trying so hard to be one! U dont brag around that u r a lesbian and yes, i consider u cheating on your bf because u r having feelings for another girl,u spend time wf her n oh ya…she also tells ppl that she has sex wf her gf n they r very loud. WTF?! I’m so irritated coz I think she’s over doing it. I know real lesbians won’t say it out loud n announce to the world that they are lesbians.
So, whoever you are, if you are reading this and you know you are one of those, stop doing it, whether you think its cool or you just want guy’s attention. Guys are so over girls that like kissing each other in clubs and lesbian pretenders. You wanna hook up with a guy, go in front of him, introduce yourself and make friends with him. I think they would appreciate that more.
People say I’m gay. Are they trying to make me sound cool? I really don’t get it lol. Got to watch The L Word then maybe I’ll get a better insight!
i wanna watch also…!!!
cannot blame “social lesbianism” on men leh……oh yeah….kristin kreuk is scorching hot!
being lesbian is good in 1way: u wouldnt get pregnant.
i believe bisexual, i actually think tht most of us are bisexual, but it’s all in varying degrees.
L word interest me too when I heard many good feedbacks from various friends of mine.I so cannot wait til’ my SPM to over and catch this.
I too,do not believe in bisexual.I agree with you.
Some people believe lesbian is something more embarass than bisexual,so they use this term instead.I find it no silly to tell people your true sexuality.
I don’t think i can ever be a lesbian, the thought of eating pussy doesn’t really appeal to me. Anyways, i think there is sort of a double standard, where is ok for girls to be bisexual but for guys, it’s either gay or straight, no double dipping.
Wat u said really enlighten alot ppl including me and changed ppl’s mindset towards lesbian (PLU’s geng may want you to be their spokeperson).. to me.. Les is about falling in love with girls, loving female naked body is just LUST or admiring their body and secretly wishing that we too can achieve that great body etc but definitely NOT LES..
Lol, my fren also recently told me that guys find lesbian girls more attractive.. But i never tot people will go around announcing they’re les just to gain attention.. so degrading to the real lesbians..
kristin kreuk = real beauty..she is too pretty for words!!!
OHHHH, i saw one or two episodes when i was in Europe. well, i guess i am still to underage to watch naked girls because i immediately switched to Big Brother when they were screening the opening song of the drama. haha.
In my hayday I sometimes “confess” my tendency.
But I didnt realize it has became an IN thing to say 10 years later.
My current line is: I am not just bi-sexual. I am Tri-sexual.
– I will “try” anything “sexual”
… i learned that from Ali G. haha..
Ooo! I’m a L Word fan too! Shane is so HOT! Nice post though! 🙂
I agree with Rascal.
If a girl has a boyfriend, and behind his back meets a girl and kisses her or some thing like that, it’s cheating…
Also, as guy, I think, we are all becoming sick about this lesbian craze. Real lesbians, I think, don’t care what guys want, and these girl who pretend be lesbian… that’s really sad.
is DANA who said “Don’t give us that look. No we won’t have sex with you and another woman. We just want to have sex with another woman.” . LOL.
5 seasons in total. oh mannn.
going to chase those 4 seasons first before the 5th season come out
Lesbians are really pretty. Most of them anyway. Hehe.
Where can i get the show? wats the title of the show? sound interesting 🙂
L word is a nice movie…i love Shane too! she’s so cool… and actually, she’s not a real lesbian. Only in the movie, she is…
Crap! The L Word roooooockkkss! I love Jennifer Beals! How I wish I can fly over to the states and meet her! Gosh!
fluffz: i know right!!! which season are u at now?
I’ve finished season 1 – 5. You?
I’m actually re-watching it. It’s soooo addictive! I’m beginning to wonder am I the only straight (at least I think I am) woman who loves The L Word (namely, Jennifer Beals) and I’m beginning to wonder, too, whether is this show gonna turn me into a gay person. LOL!
until 4 only! No la i’m like straighter than a ruler. And i’m still as straight. 🙂
Haha! Really? But you don’t know how obsessed I am with Jennifer Beals! Hahaha!
She is my favvvvvvvv! did u watch Flash Dance?
Yes yes! I did! Flashdance was famous even before I was born! I told you I’m a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig fan! 😛
So, what ’bout you? Did you watch?
Hey! Is Sex and the City better than The L Word?
yay i just bought the L word season 5. JB is soooooo cheap. Yes i think SATC is still the best! 🙂
Haha! Cheap? Why? 😀