is when you sometimes feel offended by being 25.
There were a few shockers that happened recently that made me go completely pensive. First of all my longest friend Ichigo told me she needs me to design a set of white nail art set for her because she’s getting married. I went OMFG for one whole week.
And then yesterday i was filling up some form, and i was forced to tick the little squarie next to “25-29” under the age category. And i felt very offended. Why can’t they put 21-25 instead of 20-24?!
Ok. Doesn’t matter in a year’s time, anyway. Actually. Less than a year.
YOU SEE? You get petty with all these technicalities!
Anyway i could hardly believe it. I mean. 5 years ago i was 20. And i could hardly believe that i was 20. FML. I dunno man. I can’t like, complain to anyone older than me. They will just stare at me with their STFU eyes with piercing poignancy.
When i told mom she was like, “man, i feel you. When i was 18 i thought i was old. Wait until i was 25, i thought now i’m really old. Then when i hit 30, i thought i couldn’t be any older and 25 was the best age. Before i knew it i was 35. Then 40. Then it doesn’t matter anymore.”
So the moral of the story is, in the end it won’t matter anymore. End of moral of the story.
So i shall stop panicking. Stop getting depressed over the fact that you are about to stop growing up and start growing old. But also it’s time for a reality check. As much as i don’t feel 25, i do, feel the need to take care of myself as a 25 yr old. Being independent, managing commitments, making big decisions, buy house, buy car, buy insurance policies, buy whatever.
And then there’s the physical thing. You start to get paranoid about your health, your skin, your bulges.
One day i was shopping with Ichigo, we went to this skin care shop and she started browsing the anti-aging product range. I went OMFG for 5 whole minutes. (I had never, ever thought that i will ever needed them!). They say you should start using anti-aging products as early as 25 year old because that’s when your metabolism starts to decline and you don’t wanna wait until you see the first signs of wrinkles blah blah. And now i started to look at anti-aging products. FML.
Yea i get it. The more the reason to splurge on expensive products, buy supplements and eat nourishing food and stay healthy.
I’m already starting a healthy regime. Share with you another time.
Cindy eat healthy salad.
I eat healthy sandwich.
Well, that’s just one (1, satu, yat, ichi) of the many, many ways of maintaining good health.
And talking about staying healthy, apart from the whole 25 paranoia, something has recently prompted me to make an initiative to stay healthy. To put it simply, as an incentive to encourage everyone to be as healthy as possible, up to RM500 in bonuses are given out to you per year if you are healthy!
(It is amazing. Because you can choose to redeem the bonus for cash to do more shopping, buy organic chicken to cook herbal soup, sign up for gym etc to stay healthier. it’s a positive cycle! :D)
Well, i will elaborate soon, stay cheesed to find out more about how you can get rewarded by staying healthy! ^^
You don’t look like 25. For me, you look younger than that. 😉
yalo. but IC doesnt lie. 🙁
so sad..don’t even remind me I ” was ” once 21…poof ..gone like dat, dunno what happen…
and im like a stupid noob when im 18 , cant wait to become 21..now im like what…mid 20 ? and i paranoid…! …Time flies after 21….why is that ey..!
😕 😕 😕
korea!!! 😈
-_-” im still stuck here …work keep delay forever! 😡 😡 😡
i read an article that says ppl may live to be 150yrs old in future…so 25 seems like baby stage.
that future is like 150 years later is it. 🙁
You don’t look old in anyway…U still look like a baby…How does the healthy sandwich taste like??? Plain like vege or delicious???
quite nice leh. its some grill chicken with wasabi!
you are still hip and chic and definitely look younger than 25. 😛 Oh btw, cheesie your arms are so thin!
no la in that picture only. good angle wtf
I’ve one effective way to feel younger….
Always hang out with people older than you 😉
Avoid going out with teenagers (e.g. MayZhee 😛 )
It’s called the contrast theory…
AHAHAHHAHAHAHAH OMG HEY WTF I GROW UP ALREADY OK.
based on what u told me yesterday is it.
*pat pat* there there little may zhee 😛 😆
😈 😈 😈
WHAT LITTLE I NOT LITTLE.
ok ok..not little may zhee 😛
however big may zhee or medium may zhee doesn’t sound right 😆
ok..it’ll be miss. maycheda 😛
you look… 20. honestly. okay maybe 21 but i duno the difference between any numbers in the twenties. unless u are 29 then u might look 30. lolol you know, i thought i was 13 yesterday, prancing around in my competition swimsuit. now i am 17 and i swim slower than a dead snail floating… T.T
17!!!!!!!! GO AWAY!!!!!!!
XD sorry sorry! hahahaha 😛
I read in Reader’s Digest Aug issue, a survey was done where obese ppl were asked to lose 5kg or gain 10000 dollar (some currency i cannot remember) and guess what…more than half chose 10000 dollar…
if i loose another 5KG i might need that 10k for my funeral.
why are u still in japan one!!!!!!!!!
i wish!!
work proxy…hehehe…
Tell me about it! I cannot believe I am going to be 25…. that’s quarter of the century. Then next year, I will say “oh my fckin crap, i’m going to be 26” and it goes on and on. The only comforting sentence i know of, come from my lecturer who said “21, 45, 60, it is still 2 digit. you are never old till you are 100”
lol not convincing at all one ur lecturer
hahahahha, what to do, actually that’s his method in keeping himself thinking he’s forever young. keke.
haha i’m 22 and i’m getting married soon, tell me about it! we grow up too fast these days honestly! 🙁
omg congrats! may i ask why you get married so early ah? western culture ah.
Scare of the “no lakuu” syndrome
Eee, I know how you feel also! I’m 24 going on 25 and it SUCKS! Boo hoo.
But it’s not just us girls you know? The guys I know are freaking out, too. Haha. Especially if they’re still single.
you younger than me go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Woai! Also turning 25 in a few months wat! Quarter century old, man. Eee… 1984. Blergh. I want to be 21 again. ='(
i also younger than you 😈
A quarter of human’s life has passed =)
Look at the brightside you are now more matured and with more life experience~
Next time you can guide us already XD
wtf i dont like the way you say it hmmmph.
Just enjoy your 20’s…what really matters is to live a happy and fulfilled life.
i am! 😈
Rin, age ain’t nothin’ but a number 🙂
don’t get yourself down about being 25 cuz it doesn’t matter..you’re still you 🙂
hmmm.
tis true.. you are still the ever cheeseable you no matter you’re 21, 23, 25 or 88 🙂
yeah, i could understand this feeling. whenever i’m filling up forms, i get to tick the 1st box (20-24) and i was satisfy. but then i suddenly realize that next year, i would have to start ticking the 2nd box and i was pretty much pissed off with myself for getting old so fast, weird right?? getting angry for growing old, i think i’m starting to have meno-pause..
anyway, but if we live our life to the fullest till 25, we shouldn’t have any regrets. but as for me, i wasted my 24 year old life by working part time and i think i’m pretty annoyed with myself for not age-ing gracefully (no commitments or whatsoever) to a quarter century.
go for a holiday! 😈 😉
Better still………crawl back into your mum’s womb and stay there for a while b4 popping your head out again to celebrate your 1st day birthday, eh?
Rin,
Sigh…if only one could be 25 again….
Really you are just entering the prime time in your life as a women! You are as lovely and beautiful as most women aspire to achieve, you have more going for you than many.
Now when you get to be 20 X 2 one can talk about how life has changed since being a young person, (that’s you Rin.)
Feel free to ask about this. BTW my beloved wife is just slightly less than double your age.
Have a great week, and please, please EMBRACE being 25 years old. It is a great time in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
😈
David
if im ur age i’ll wish could be 25 again also. haih.
Rin,
I hope I am around when you reach 25 X 2! ! ! !
Do you think you will be blogging in 2034?
David
how much does it cost you to learn japanese? please reply
Hi jay, Cheesie is not feeling well, need to rest, she’ll get back to you once she’s better. 😐
thank you mama cheesie
hi. i dont go for classes anymore. 300+ per level. But you are in UK?
how long does it take per level?
i want to start beginning level now LOL
cheesie please reply 🙁
about 2-3 months!
The freaking scariest thing is the having to grow up bit, graduating, finding a job, working your ass off, DON’T WANT LAH I WANT TO BE SIXTEEN FOR LIFE PLEASE!
but u just celebrated ur birthday. nyeh nyeh nyeh nyeh 👿 👿 👿
You’re right….try being on the late twenties…..more jialat ler….
guy is different one.
“growing up is mandatory; growing old, is optional” 😉
good quote! 😈
looks like something that can help me, so many ppl say i super fat edi. am i obese?
cuz u eat in australia everyday.
the restaurant wall is nice!! haha, so kawaii!! nice or not??
ya quite nice one
Where is that healthy food place at? The salad looks good. Eh, reminds me of the first time I met you. O’Brians! 🙂
marmalade bangsar village! 😈
Greetings from Australia ya!
haha great. have fun!
you dont look 25 at all.
ya lo but like i said IC and passport dont lie one.
don’t talk about 25 here!!!!!
yay! malaysian flag!
I feel you, Ringo! I just turned 25 last 2 days.. which means i’ve hit the quarter already! And tis is the time, we’ll start to age. 🙁 Thats y i felt i should start be healthy again. especially when i feel more aches than i did before.. aged 25 but body don’t seem like it.. seriously not good! Let’s all be healthy and youthful! Hahahaha.. 😀
happy belated bday!!!
I guess i’ve made a mistake in addressing you.. it should be Rin now! Sorry!! 🙁
haha is ok! everyone is ignorant one awhile 😈
aiya…..why worry? you dun look old laaaaaaaa
but but but!
i was forced to tick the little squarie next to “25-29″ under the age category.
i am like that too.. T__T
but my birthday still not yet reach, so i still tick on the 20-24.. XD
hahhha end of the year then u know!!