Hair complex

July 26, 2013 in Hair Cheat One™

I had short hair all my life, until i graduated Form 5, that was the biggest bodily freedom i’ve ever gained.

And then i tried to keep long hair all my life.

But i cut it last week, although it’s still considered long hair, it was the boldest hair decision i’ve ever made, on my own will.

A lot of you probably won’t relate to this because i was from Chinese school and was not allowed to have fringe longer than my eyebrow, or hair that touches my collar. (Do they still do that nowadays???) I tried to keep it long and escape the prefect “hair & nail check”, but sometimes i get caught, then i was asked to stand aside and wait until the guru discipline to come with a big cloth scissors and cut it until like 狗咬的 (dog bitten). T____T Although nowadays that is probably considered avant garde.

After graduation i kept it as long as i can but when i joined an online show i was forced to cut my hip length hair and it was quite tragic T___T. After the show i immediately went for hair extensions and grew my hair until it was the original length again.

I was probably not resistant to try out new styles, but all these past experiences added together had traumatized my whole life.

My equation: Cut hair = scary.

I’d be so tensed at every snip and will clutch the seat so tight it will probably break.

The danna also never bug me to cut my hair until i asked him to, last week. He didn’t believe me and he was just like “No you are just saying and you are not serious about it. You will ask me a million questions and then after that tell me you don’t want to cut after all. I know you too well.”

Lolol he was right la i had these flashing urges to dramatically cut my hair all the time but was always waiting for “the right moment”. Like, i dunno, maybe getting a new religion, becoming lesbian, or to fake teenange angst and pretend 潇洒 wtf. None of those things i waited happened.

Then i realized the right moment is when you marry a person who actually cuts hair for a living wtf. I couldn’t believe i waited until now to ask him for the first time. To cut my hair.

 

Old hair since 2 years ago.

 

 

 

 

And then the next day i went to the salon and let him do whatever he wanted with my hair.

(I did 忍不住 ask him what kind of style? He was like “California girl style”. And i was secretly worried because the only California girl hairstyle i know of is a shiny lilac wig on Katy Perry wtf.)

 

This is how long my hair was.

 

 

And cut

 

Cut + color

 

Result:

 

I like it very much.

Chopped almost half my hair off and had it layered a lot.

Also dyed it dark. I don’t have a name for it, but since you all asked, number76 has decided to call it “Mysterious Midnight Charcoal Ash” lol. although QiuQiu insisted it was “Ultraviolet Chrome”.

 

Strangely enough, it’s been one week and i haven’t missed my long hair at all. This has never happened before in my life lol.

I like it because now i know how being able to dry your hair in 5 minutes feels like (previously was more like 2 years), and also i can style it easier.

Some of the simple hair arrange:

Can also tie up and i loooove how the layering let me have fake long fringe lolol cuz i’ve been trying to grow my fringe unsuccessfully forever.

Literally my wake-up hair.

Generally it looks less dead than before la because it was so long and Malaysia is so hot i ended up tying super long hair into buns anyway super pointless lol.

Ok that’s all for today!

 

 

52 people cheesed “Hair complex”

  1. very nice

  2. Young and wild. Super chio!!

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  4. You look younger and fresher with your new hairstyle! Love it!

  5. Anonymous says:

    That’s cute :)nnI don’t know how long hair feels lol. Whenever I look at your pictures and your hair, I do wonder how I’d look (and feel) like in long hair (I like girls who style their long hairs, but styled short hairs can look very cute too and youthful). But I can’t even grow my hair past my shoulders. It’s hot in my country and my hair is thick and heavy, I don’t feel well when it grows long. So I have it cut at least twice a year. I don’t understand the feeling of valuing long hair lol so I get really amazed when I see girls who take hair matters seriously. :DnnYour new style looks very very good on you. :D And, IDK, for me it makes you look taller! :D

  6. That’s cute :)nnI don’t know how long hair feels lol. Whenever I look at your pictures and your hair, I do wonder how I’d look (and feel) like in long hair (I like girls who style their long hairs, but styled short hairs can look very cute too and youthful). But I can’t even grow my hair past my shoulders. It’s hot in my country and my hair is thick and heavy, I don’t feel well when it grows long. So I have it cut at least twice a year. I don’t understand the feeling of valuing long hair lol so I get really amazed when I see girls who take hair matters seriously. :DnnYour new style looks very very good on you. :D And, IDK, for me it makes you look taller! :D

  7. You look really good in this new cut of yours. gives you more liveliness than the previous hairstyle. It suits you a lot. I too am very afraid when it comes to cutting my hair. So, really kudos to you for making that super bold decision!

  8. My school still does that sadly :(

  9. Daphne Mabel Chai says:

    Like your new hair ! Looking rock. :]

  10. isabellmiao says:

    The last picture look especially pretty. ^^

  11. omg you looks so beautiful in every pictures

  12. Vina Tania says:

    I like the new style.. You look more “fresh”

  13. hitomineko says:

    cute~ I am scared to cut hair as well! it’s really scary.. haha.. n i also have occasions where I really want to cut my hair. but at the end, I think safer to keep my hair.. haha .. nnxo nnwww.hitomiblog.com

  14. I love the color of your hair ^.^

  15. QUUENZBEEZ says:

    hi… im the exact opposite of what u been thru! i have long hair my whole life until i was 21yrs old and then – I JUST WENT CRAZY & SNAP IT OFF from boob length to super short bob!!!! ta da and i love short hair ever since. now im growing it back bcoz its easier to tie when u have bb, like me now… :Pnn i love all ur pix and ur hair colour – so cool! so daring!

  16. Your new hair looks amazing on you, as always! And you’re right, Chinese schools still have that no hair touching eyebrow / shoulders rule. (In Singapore this is applicable to all primary + secondary schools, plus several JCs. Pretty sad really)

  17. I find shorter hair less expensive to keep and not as heavy. So cool How Danna looks after u, ultra sweet! :)

  18. lyannechan says:

    love your hair right now~ :D love the color also :D

  19. eivinying says:

    are you came from Chong Hwa independent high school ?! they have the rules: no long fringe over eyebrows and hair touch collar too !!

  20. ummmmm have to say this is the best style so far! super long wass a bit princessy, this one is more casual and fun (maybe that’s what he meant by california girl @_@) and the reverse ombre is omg ♥♥♥

  21. I totally feel the same, cut hair = scary! I wonder when will be the time that i’ll be brave like u cheesie. Hehehe

  22. I get the feeling that your husband isn’t super loving towards you… like, his attitude is a little cold, but I think that’s the way japanese guys are, right?nAnyways, glad you got your hair cut.. Sometimes I see girls with long hair in real life and I feel like it’s so gross…. The bottom half and the ends are so nasty..

  23. Hello Cheesie sorry have not followed your blog for a while, so I hope you don’t mind answering my silly questions: Your husband isn’t Takeru (I think that was his name, sorry I forgot ._.) right? And how do you stay so skinny lately? In your old photos you weren’t so skinny but you’ve been very slim these past few years and even said your waist size dropped to 22 inches recently. ~_~ I’m 42-43kg and my waist is like 23~24 inches cos I keep bloating badly. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t wanna lose more weight, I just wanna slim my waist down a bit. A few tips would be great and appreciated! Also, late congratulations on your wedding :)

  24. P.S: what’s your diet in a day and do you exercise or move around a lot?

  25. PPS sorry cheesie last question before you get too irritated by me. How do you keep your face slim even when eating good food? :( I hate chubby cheeks!

  26. Anonymous says:

    Pls provide link to purchase your colored contact lenses (that ship international) — You’re still wearing your Rainbow, correct or is that something else. Do you mind sharing what is the name of the color lenses and brand that you’re wearing in 5th picture from bottom (w/ yellow heart/white top). I really like your hair shorter, even better w/o bangs, but I’m not sure of the color scheme. Shorter looks a lot more put together not to mention easier to take care. Thanks and have a good day.

  27. Love your new hair!

  28. Thanks!

  29. Thanks! You can get it from tokyoninki.com

  30. You can do Botox if you don’t like needles I find Refa roller really effective too

  31. I actually have gastric so I constantly bloat too :(( lately I have not been having good appetite :( that’s why losing weight

  32. Chan Wa TT

  33. What is JC!! Ya nightmare it made me hate school time so much wtf

  34. Congrats on your bb!! Hope you have time to pan leng leng again soon :D

  35. Anonymous says:

    Dear Cheesie,nI think you look better with this hair. You look more fresh and younger than before. Really love your new hairstyles. <3

  36. I think ur hair looks super good on you! Maybe you can do hair tutorials ! My hair is about the same length as you .. But i can’t seem to do any hair styles as it is so fine

  37. Queenzbeez says:

    Try with a feminine top and skirt and leather jacket.. I think is a killer look!

  38. Vivien Tee says:

    Wow! So you are in the same secondary school as my boyfriend and singapore mediacorp artist chen hong yu (not sure u know him or not).

  39. Vivien Tee says:

    JC is junior college lol, practically its just college or high school.n

  40. Ram Salvador says:

    I love your hair :) <3

  41. You look a lot like K-Pop’s Lee Hyori…!

  42. You call that short??? Haha…short means not reaching your shoulders! :P

  43. Chessie ! How to style that hair length ? Please show us.. Pretty Please !!

  44. It depends on your layering and the shape of your hair! Mine was cut such a way i really dont need to do anything to style it lol.

  45. i rmr back when you loved your super long, thick & black virgin hair and gradually allowed dyes & perms and now you’ve graduated to chopping your long locks for a layered cut! :D maybe we’ll get to see you with a bob in the future?

  46. Haha maybe ah!!! Now i cannot say “I WILL NEVER CUT MY HAIR!!!!!” anymore lol

  47. You look AH-MA-ZING!

  48. Hi Cheesie, nnyour new haircut is awesome! Anyway about this hair salon Number 76 that you always frequent, do they do a good job if one wants to have a total hair makeover, like from supr long hair to a short bob? I’m kinda afraid of stylist that simply cut your long locks and style it to something that doesn’t suit our face shape at all thus we end up look like some auntie. haha~

  49. I never went for such a drastic change so i can’t really comment on that, plus the danna cut my hair for me so it’s really biased, of course i love it very much lol. But yeah you have to trust the stylist for a major makeover, so maybe you can start by something smaller, like coloring or trim first?

  50. Hi cheesie!Can i know what color and where you did your hair on your 6th picture from top?It looks kinda ashy blonde :D

  51. it’s lavender ash! :)

  52. U did it in number76? Which outlet and stylist?thanks in advance hun :)

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